Trampling is a BDSM activity or fetish in which one person (in this case the Mistress) stands on the other (in this case the slave). The act often produces feelings of objectification, degradation and worship and can be very painful. Associated acts can include walking on the slave, using the slave as furniture (sitting on them, laying on them, using them as a table, footstool, etc.), and foot fetish. Safety concerns are primarily related to bone and joint health. If you are considering taking up this fetish (contact me), please consider the following:

Safety and Comfort

The first thing to consider is what many within the community refer to as Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK). It is similar to the concept of “safer sex” in that the consenting parties should be aware that there is always some level of risk involved in playing. It’s always best to be as informed as one can be, and take the safety precautions that work best for you. Let it be a calculated risk instead of a mindless risk. Also:

Consider foot placement: Concentrate foot placement on fleshy areas of the body, making sure to avoid bones, joints and close to the surface/vulnerable organs. Permanent damage can be done by trampling so do as I say.

Choice of shoe: Many people prefer a flat soled shoe. I’ve had many requests for different types of flat soled shoes as they provide the best weight distribution. I’ve also used many different types of boots (I do love my boots) and regularly use very high heels. If you are interested in using high heels, I strongly recommend starting with flat soles and slowly working your way up from there. There is never any harm from taking things slowly.

Consider the surface: Will the bottom be laying on the floor? On a bed? Something else? The surface that the bottom is laying on will have an impact on their ability to take this treatment for any given period of time. How long do you want them there?

Consider the Bottom’s Breathing: Trampling can be very restrictive on the bottom’s breathing. Pay attention to their breath and circulatory feedback such as color and temperature of skin and tingling sensations. Breath play can be a part of this activity, but make it intentional. It’s very important that the top understands, to what degree they can, what the bottom is experiencing on both a physical and psychological level.

Not to be cheesy, but have a wonderful time! The whole point is for us to enjoy each other, develop intimacy, engage in self-discovery and indulge in sexuality that appeals to us. In being informed, I’ve found that my mind can be at greater ease and that allows me to focus on my favorite. Having an amazing time. 🙂

Please tell me about your experience in the comments section.