In my work as a Mistress, I am frequently asked questions by those who are apprehensive. It can be very unsettling to meet a stranger to engage in such intimate activities, as BDSM. Here is a response that I recently sent someone:

Hello.

I understand your apprehension.  Yes, I am also a dominatrix.

In my hypnosis work, I generally try to gather all of the information regarding what you are looking for, so as to provide you with the best experience possible.  I also tend to use a passive induction, meaning it is progressive, not sudden.  I try to help you to enjoy the experience as much as is possible and suggest things that you’ve asked me to suggest.  So essentially, you are doing all of the work; it’s just that I know how to do it well. 

In my dominatrix work it’s not much different.  The focus just tends to be more on the physical experience and the relationship between us.

I’m not sure how familiar you are with BDSM, but one of the defining factors is consent.  The reason for this is that consent is a primary factor in differentiating healthy play from hurtful play.  It’s very important to me that a) you have a good time and b) that our time is good for you.  It may help to schedule a consultation with me before proceeding.  I’m told that I have kind eyes, a nice smile and a calming voice.  It may help to humanize me if we were to talk a bit before proceeding.

You can schedule a consultation with me here.

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