Fun With My Boy-girl

Being a Portland dominatrix brings me exquisite experiences with the most extraordinary people. Here’s a little something from one of my most recent BDSM sessons with a lovely and devoted slave. Whipping Girl He’s so adorable. He’s always so nervous...

What is BDSM?

Working in the BDSM and mental health industries can lead someone to a few interesting questions, as well as frustrations. One such frustration is the lack of understanding, held by the traditional health care worker, of BDSM, kink, fetish, alternative sexualities,...

BDSM Shy

In my work as a Mistress, I am frequently asked questions by those who are apprehensive. It can be very unsettling to meet a stranger to engage in such intimate activities, as BDSM. Here is a response that I recently sent someone: ^ Kind Eyes Hello. I understand your...

Trampling My Slave

Trampling my slave Trampling is a BDSM activity or fetish in which one person (in this case the Mistress) stands on the other (in this case the slave). The act often produces feelings of objectification, degradation and worship and can be very painful. Associated acts...

Session With Cutie

The following is a description of a recent BDSM session I had in Portland, Oregon.  Sometimes I feel like I was born to be a Femdom and, as I was just explaining to someone who was seeking a Mistress, sometimes the chemistry is also perfect. Bubble Bath He was awfully...

Aftercare and Self-Care

Aftercare and self-care This is an important topic that comes up frequently in my work as a femdom.  It’s something that everyone who engages in fetish and/or BDSM play should know about.  In my sessions, I don’t stress these things, because I am only...

Playtime At Fempire

I’ve been working as a Mistress and dominatrix in Portland, Oregon for six-ish years. Lately there have been some fantastic femdom events that have grabbed my attention. Fempire was a great event. Put on by the marvelous Mistress Viola, a comfortable and yet...

Meet Me at Fempire, Slave!

As a Mistress and Femdom I am frequently approached by people who are curious to get to know me, but who are not quite ready to make the emotional, monetary or time/energy commitment required for my BDSM services.  On top of this, it can be understandably difficult to...

Kink for the Curious, November 7th

Sub Rosa is a dazzling new BDSM dungeon space that is opening in the wonderfully and notoriously weird Portland, Oregon.  Especially for female (identified) lead play and relationships, it will be run by Miss Viola Parker and Miss Mona Darling.  On the evening of...

Couple’s Session

The couple walked in right on time, looking a little shy. This was a familiar demeanor for him, but this time there was something different about him. I invited them in, asking if they’d like to talk for a bit. So we all sat down for chitchat. Starting off with...