BDSM Shy

In my work as a Mistress, I am frequently asked questions by those who are apprehensive. It can be very unsettling to meet a stranger to engage in such intimate activities, as BDSM. Here is a response that I recently sent someone: ^ Kind Eyes Hello. I understand your...

Trampling My Slave

Trampling my slave Trampling is a BDSM activity or fetish in which one person (in this case the Mistress) stands on the other (in this case the slave). The act often produces feelings of objectification, degradation and worship and can be very painful. Associated acts...

Hypnosis 101

This is something that I hear a lot, “I’ve never been hypnotized before.” Everyone’s been hypnotized.  They just don’t realize it because they don’t know what it is. Hypnosis is just a trance state.  It can be compared to the...

Sub-Drop and X-Drop

Today, I’m writing on the subject of sub-drop and reflecting a bit on an article recently published by the Journal of Positive Sexuality.  Not the sexiest topic in the world, but it’s also not bad brain food and it’s an important topic to be aware...

Hypnosis

There are a few misconceptions about hypnosis that I want to clear up from time to time. Here’s one: “Hypnosis is a way of making people do things that you want.” Hypnosis makes things of benefit easy to accept. It is most effective when Hypnotist...

BDSM and Altered States

I appreciate this Livescience article and perhaps you will, too. It briefly covers the neuro-social benefits of sadomasochism, then covers BDSM-like practices in a spiritual setting.  It’s great for anyone who enjoys science, psychology, S&M, spirituality or...